hurting and being hurt. an endless vicious cycle that mankind has no intention to break nor end.
i had one too many experiences of being hurt. others have too.
however it hit me yesterday. if someone hurts you, it is not fully their fault. it is partially our fault as well. we did not put the wall high enough. we bared our nakedness to someone. and most of us are guilty of showing our vulnerability because you want that person to hold you dearly. and guess what? he/she does not. and you end up getting hurt.
build your wall high and strong. if someone puts enough effort to break through the wall, he/she is most unlikely to hurt you. or if he/she does, at least you know that you have done your part of the job.
everyone has been hurt. grab a mirror. tell yourself the scar left makes you who you are today. you are amazing.